Reflections about me: A Black Woman in Black History Month

In celebration of Black History Month, Faye reflects on her career as a nurse, midwife and academic, the importance of representation and role models, and the values of equality, inclusion, kindness and mentorship. She shares what it means to have a voice, be visible and inspire future generations, while recognising those who have paved the way before her.

As I look at the divisions in society, at people, my career and achievements, I feel proud to celebrate who I am in this Black History Month. This pride comes from feeling confident in having a voice, being visible and being respectful of myself and others. 

I am a retired nurse, midwife and academic and have held senior roles in these fields. The values that underpin me are ones of equality, inclusion rather than exclusion, kindness, mentorship and support. A smile goes such a long way even when you do not understand the other person. I look at those who have come before me and aspire to be a role model to black and brown people. This sometimes require me to be bold, open, receive and give feedback, challenge, act with integrity and be comfortable with who I am. 

Reflection allows me to learn from my experiences and be sensitive. It allows me to be kind to myself and to others. 

As I write about me, the value of having a voice and being seen, I acknowledge the value of role models, mentors and icons.  They exist across society. Growing up, I can think of the Jackson Five and in Nursing, Mary Seacole, a Jamaican, nurse, herbalist, boarding house proprietor, who cared for British soldiers during the Crimean War. We can aspire to be like them and be inspired.

So, let us have our own quiet reflections, be joyful and celebrate our achievements in this Black History Month. 

Faye Doris 

Retired Nurse, Midwife

Retired Associate Professor of Midwifery